yenny ni demand la...

i'll try to make it short this time...short la sgt kan..:p

this time it's about a boring topic for me but may be an exciting topic for those who sgt kemaruk nak kawin...

being 23 and still single sometime might raise issue to people who kemaruk nk kawin...

but not me..my journey is still far and there is so many things to be discovered while being single..my target to get married is between 27 28..so i got 4 to 5 years more..

"ko ni dok single lagi demand sgt la tu"

ok that's the situation..the irritating part is when you sit among those people who 24 hours talk about marriage love marriage love marriage love...and that's not the problem either...

the perceptions are also different from one another and that's also not the problem here...

the actual problem is when you are being matched to with those who you dont like because of some reasons..(career.. vision..look)...

it's my right if i reject the calon2...but it made these people called me a demanding woman...

ok what's is the meaning of demand?...strongly asking something..that's the actual meaning..

am i asking for something strongly??? no..i just state my stand which i want someone who is financially stable and can guide me dunia akhirat...that's all...the look will be a bonus...i'm not looking for prince charming..enough with a sweet and a calm look...

i know the word 'demand' come when i mentioned about 'financially stable'

hellooo..it's a man's responsibility to fulfill all the necessity of the family...

kalo memanjang dok cinta2 tp hasil xdak boleh ke bela anak org...

"kita senang susah sama2"

ya i agree with that but how can you take care of someone if half of your salary has been spent on cigarette...when i asked them how much is your saving monthly?...they answered almost 0 and it's a success if they can save 50 monthly..the issue here is not the salary but how do you manage your finance...

no woman want to get married to live in hardship right?

thus because of the possibilities that i might get someone who earn 'ngam2' salary, or i wont get anybody at all so i need to make a back up plan which is search for my own properties..car house and saving...

and for that i dont have to be gelojohhhhh to get married...

dont think for today but think for 20 years ahead...that's what my mami always says..

ok please stop pushing matching me and arguing with me about searching a soulmate...i can manage and i know what kind of life that i wanna live...just dont act smart and lecture me with all your falsampah...for me if u can get a permanent good job, can save 1/4 or your salary then you can talk about love and getting married...before you get all those things just be silent and go dating with your buah hati..dont interrupt my life...simple...

it's not that im talking shit but i rather be single than getting someone who only know to talk about love but cant cater what i need..i'm talking about keperluan 1st..not kemahuan..

if my keperluan also you cant cater how about kemahuan..jgn harap la kan..

advice for you guys...love is only the first stage in getting into a relationship but then once you are in the relationship it's all about responsibilities...you cant buy house car periuk belanga sofa meja katil peti ais dapur lauk2 with love only..you cant give the best education to your children only with love..you cant pay the hospital bills with love..kenyang ke bukak tudung saji xde lauk just ada pekataan I LOVE YOU FOREVER..(burrppppp!!! kenyang)

money cant buy everything BUT everything needs money..

including a happy family and a happy life..we are no longer in zaman GURINDAM JIWA..we dont plant the paddy we dont fish and we dont bela lembu ayam kambing..we HAVE TO BUY them..WITH MONEY..

you can call me orthodox materialistic but i believe i'm a realistic and this is the best and im sure almost all women will agree with me..(kecuali yang kemaruk nak kawin and takut jadi andartu)

"jaga2 laki2 makin kurang skang ni nnt melepas"

so what? do you want me to just simply accept whoever likes me even he is useless??

marriage is more than that.. it's not about sex it's not about getting anak as many as you want isnt it?

i'm not that desperate...love comes and go but i've faith in Allah that He knows better what's good for me...He has made someone for me and even there's no one for me i still has faith that He has destined something better for my future...

so if you guys wanna be gelojohhhh just go ahead but dont drag me into your silly discussion...

i can entertain you guys but dont get over my nerves..ok? understood?

p/s~tidak berniat menyinggung mana2 pihak just voicing how i feel each time you call me a demanding woman....peace..